sub-mission

I’ve put off my posting about what defines a “slave”, a “boy” and such as these terms are going to ultimately be defined by the Dom and sub in their relationship. No two relationships are going to have the same protocols. For example, there is the commonly held belief that a slave must walk behind their Dom/me, but there are relationships, such as the one Master C has with his submissives where he expects them to walk in front of him so that he can look at their asses. The definitions are going to be defined by those in the relationship. A Master or Mistress who enjoys doing laundry isn’t any less a dominant than those who have their submissives fluff and fold.

When you are starting in a D/s relationship, especially if you are in a more isolated situation, you may only have the porn stories from the 70’s and 80’s as a guide, what I will be referring to as the Mythic Old Guard in the blog, but please have the recognition that the concept of the slave who stays locked in a cage while their Dom/me goes off to work is not only dangerous to the sub, but in this financial age very unlikely and besides shouldn’t it be the submissive who is out working while the Master or Mistress lives a life of leisure?

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